The Past and The Future

If only we can ever know what the future is like for us, we are totally going to freak out or just only be happy for those who make it right in the past, and maybe going to change a bit of the details of the things we have done in the past, or not. We probably are going to change whatever decisions we took in the past, if given the opportunity to do so, for the so-called happy endings to every decision that we have corrected in the past and for a better future. The past is like our enemy. You  maybe have hated it, but it haunts you for the rest of your life if you don’t treat it right. For us to know the future and change whatever bad or hideous things we have done in the past, indeed my friends, it is impossible.

All of us know that there is a saying that goes “Everything happens for a reason”, which gives a lot of people hope and kept them survived against all the odds in life. I believe in my own version of that “ Everything happens for a reason”, which is “Everything happens for lots of reasons”. These reasons are the reasons that will change anyone’s life or even yours, by affecting only a tiny part of it at first, which leads to another part and thus in the end,  the whole part of it. The past is what determines what future is like for us. What you have done today, for example- you have completed an assignment together with a friend that you never knew his name before and both of you worked pretty well together, well, as the time goes, that moment will become the past, the moment when you and that friend worked together. There goes the future with many probabilities which one of the probabilities is that- you know and remember that lovely friend’s name the next day and days after that, and you get  extra marks for your well-done work of your submitted assignment.

There are some of us out there, that took every actions they acted, even the little ones, for granted. They may have been given the second chance to correct their mistakes, but they maybe have wasted it and move on with a different paths, further than the paths they should be taking if they have made the correct decisions. Do you even know that every little details of your decisions will not only affect your life, but anyone’s? So, you can predict what I’m about to say in the next sentence or sentences. Do not take anything for granted. By appreciating the precious moments you have with your loved ones and expressing it-you are doing it right. By enjoying the time of your youth-which comes only once in life, though your study routines and anything else that are what determines a better future for you is killing you, you are doing it right. By embracing your happy and not-so happy moments with your life-partners, bestfriends, collegues or whoever that might concerns you, for they are all your guidances and the important supporting actors and actresses in your own drama which you are the main the character-your life, and once again-you are doing it right. To remember the all heartbreaks, problems and troublesome past maybe quite burdensome to your shoulders, but also remember that  they are all there for you to change to a better person in the future and to always to remind you to not make the same mistake twice.

To live only once is enough, if you do it right. Cheers for love, everyone? <3

#cheers#